how low can you go?

On the front of inevitable demise of my so-called marriage, we went to the movies today and saw The Village. I actually kind of liked this movie, even though I had read a spoiler about the ending long before it came out, and was actually surprised to find out that it had been correct...even though when I read it I thought it was too farcical to actually be true. Anyway, we went and paid separately for the tickets and the candy we snuck in (cause I'll be damned if I am going to pay three bucks for some Milk Duds). Then we sat with the straight males' obligatory "We're not gay so we maintain this extra seat in between us so nobody will be confused" seat where I put my bag and our ill-gotten candy items. I am too emotionally drained to care that much at this point. I think that in a marriage at least one partner needs to be concerned about the well-being of the relationship...in our case we are both so indifferent that it is inevitable that at some point we will go our separate ways. But most of the marriages and relationships that I see are shams anyway, so at least I'm honest in my failure to maintain a committed relationship.